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Matthews, Karen (November 30, 2021). "Author Alice Sebold apologizes to man cleared in 1981 rape". The Associated Press . Retrieved December 1, 2021. This is petty compared to everything else I wrote but I’m gonna add it in here anyway because it took me out of the book constantly- the old pop culture references. Daniel is 26 years old in 2019; the pop culture references he uses make him sound like he’s a grandpa. If Daniel was a movie buff or 1980’s pop culture aficionado, the references would make sense, but he’s not. I have never heard a young millennial/ old gen z person talk like this. I didn’t understand a single reference. I looked up half of them and figured the other half would just be an inside joke I would never understand… and the football references, omg, like water torture.

If you come by this book, it's probably for one of two reasons: first, you liked The Lovely Bones; second, you have a personal need for Sebold's insights.

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The first girlfriend I ever had in college was raped at a frat house. We were both freshmen, a few months into our first semester, still in that sheltered bubble of youth, where bad things only happen to strangers. She went out with friends, I made the decision to stay in and study. Thus, for me, the first lesson of college: the choices you make can be the choices you cannot unmake. Saw the cute little house cover with a blurb from Stephen King "A fantastic novel.....You are going to like this a lot." I'd say, "I liked it, and I was thinking about it for a few days after I finished it." La vergogna e la paura rimangono, la violenza non si lava via: infatti le sono serviti altri diciotto anni per riuscire a scrivere un libro sul suo stupro. Questo.

The present-day timeline takes place in 2008. Why do you think the author chose this year for the story? How do you think the story would have differed if it were set today? This whole book feels like it’s trying to be woke but in actuality it was being offensive. Great, your main character is disabled, don’t take away his disability. The girl who was kidnapped was Asian; the book has a few throw away lines about how the outcry for a white girl would have been greater, but that’s literally it. The entire conflict of the book is based around her kidnapping but we learn little about her. It felt as though her race was merely used as a shallow plot device, which is gross.

Compassion Fatigue; A combination of being overwhelmed by the sheer number and scope of human disasters and atrocities, and numbed by the decontextualized manner in which they are presented by the media (thanks Abigail!) When I saw her, she was cowering in the corner, and the look in her eyes, that mingling of fear and alertness, is something that I've never forgotten. (The only thing I can compare it to is my dog, Henry, who I rescued from a shelter; when I first got him, whenever I raised my voice, he got that same slinking, terrified look, as though waiting for his next beating). As a man, I'm genetically incapable of understanding what the experience meant for her. Indeed, unless I'm convicted of a felony, I probably never will. All I'd ever know was the external stuff: how we broke up; how she walked about campus with a certain listlessness; how she started smoking and drinking and doing things she hadn't done before; and how she dropped out of school a year later, and disappeared into the rest of her life, while I stayed with the rest of mine. Sebold's story starts with an act that despite its violence, its illegality, is simple. Simple because most acts are, because it is simply violent, because it is simply wrong. Sebold's graphic description of her rape makes the reader at once a unwilling quasi voyager while shattering and subverting all the romance novel fantasies. Daniel has Type 2 SMA, a degenerative disease that I’ll let him explain to you. He lives alone (but with help from some great characters) in Athens, Georgia, which is a college town. One morning he sees a young woman get in a car with a man, and soon she is reported missing. Did Daniel witness a kidnapping? One of the symptoms of his advanced SMA is difficulty communicating; how will he make known what he saw?

Daniel lives in the college town of Athens, Georgia. One of my dear friends is from Athens, attended UGA, and was married there, and if you are like her and have a love for that special place, this author clearly shares your same love in this book! It was a great setting to share Daniel’s story. It’s like “the way you wait for an elevator too long, realize it’s never coming, and just take the stairs.” Cringey and uncomfortable. This book is trying to pander to progressive ideologies, but it comes off as disingenuous, preachy, and offensive. I wouldn’t recommend it. L'anno dopo fu pubblicato in Italia questo, ma l’ho ignorato: sapendo che era una storia vera, la vera storia della scrittrice, ho sorvolato pensando non avesse la potenza del primo che avevo letto. This made me rageful. I do not have SMA, nor do I know anyone with SMA. I do have a disability but nothing resembling SMA. My disability never magically disappeared during crucial ‘plot points’ of my life. I don’t understand why this telepathy was even needed, couldn’t Leitch just replace “said” with “typed”? Was it that Daniel typed so slowly that he couldn’t effectively communicate what was needed in the allotted time for the story? As if he had… a disability?As said earlier, I did appreciate learning about SMA, but I was aggravated by the multitude of passages telling us how society treated Daniel so differently and poorly. It felt like a generic after-school special about inclusion. Part of me agreed with everything that was being said. I mean, who wouldn’t agree that we need to be a more tolerant society? Who doesn’t need to self-reflect on their own privilege? Everything just felt so thoughtless that even innocent comments made me livid. Like when Daniel was wondering if Marjani (who is muslim, wears a headscarf, and abstains from alcohol) was in the kitchen cooking bacon. One morning Daniel sees a young woman walking down the street past his house. She does this every day. But on this day he sees her get into a car, and the next day he hears she has gone missing. The complex follows afterward as Sebold details not only her reaction, but those of the police, the lawyers, her friends, her family, her community's (both college and home) reaction to her rape. This is both raw and compelling because it touches at the complex issues that lie at the hear of any reaction to rape. Before I tear this book apart, let me say what I liked about it. I loved the premise. A mystery with disability rep is right up my alley. I also loved the writing style. Daniel breaks the fourth wall to talk to us for most of the story. The short, causal sentences really made it feel like we were hearing Daniel’s thoughts. This writing style and the book’s short chapters made it propulsive and easy to read.

For folks curious about life with SMA as a wheelchair-user, for a light mystery heavy on character introspection, for small laughs about dark things This is a short book, so you’d think it would just zip along. But it’s uneven and there are parts that drag. I found the ending of the story too full of coincidences to be believable and everything comes together a little too simply.E lei dice che bisogna imparare a pronunciare la parola, senza averne vergogna, senza averne paura. Alter, Rebecca (November 28, 2021). "Wrongfully Accused Man in Alice Sebold Rape Case Exonerated". Vulture . Retrieved November 29, 2021. Come dicevo, la storia è proprio quello che è successo ad Alice quando aveva diciotto anni: stupro. Rape.

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