also been restrained and put on display. They cannot run and hide. They cannot strip off the clothes. cause disruption to social and professional relationships (you have to inform people why you have breasts, for example.) Of course, some readers will respond with horror at this notion, because they feel they are unconditionally, divinely appointed, self-evidently… entitled to be female. And maybe they are. Such uncertainty dictates caution and the need for a starting point that is cheaper and more discreet. Maybe you’ll become a super successful young transwoman like Nicole Maines. Or maybe not. You just don’t know… so go slow! To be a woman is not only to have breasts and a vagina. It is to inhabit a mental universe of thought, emotion and behavior that’s different from that of a male. In other words, men and women are fundamentally different, and it’s not just that men read maps better. There’s some great books on this topic. I recommend the above, for starters.

So, I believe that men and women are fundamentally different. And this is one of the most important facts about our species. However, another important fact about our species is that we are adaptive. We learn. And thus… male minds can be reconditioned into female minds. And that is where I start my novagirls on the path to feminization: reconditioning! Walker, Harron (2019-04-25). "Making Work in Her Own Image". Out. Pride Media. Archived from the original on 2020-05-28 . Retrieved 2020-07-02. a b c d e Lindemann, Danielle J. (2012). Dominatrix: Gender, Eroticism, and Control in the Dungeon. University of Chicago Press. pp.167–169. ISBN 9780226482569. There’s a a reason that humans go on retreats to sort ourselves out, or we send people to rehab far away from their family. It’s because the best way to get to the heart of the issue is to cut out the surrounding noise. Transition adds noise. From formal etiquette to domestic duties. I will guide and support ou to be your best! I deserve nothing less. My sissy girls are polite and useful. You will learn a variety of skills based on your hard limits. Strap On Worship and Shoe Shining!

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Men, however, are not programmed to create stable social groups. They are programmed to dominate them. And if they can’t dominate, they’ll get as close to the center of power as they can. Men suffer from an intrinsic restlessness which makes them challenge the status quo, and because nurturing children is a preference – not a biological imperative – they’re more excessive and ready to take risks. Also, they are able to think in a more calculated, cold, and selfish, manner.

of or obedience to." The difference, while nuanced, does matter. Forced seems overkill because someone The future result of your feminization project is unknown; therefore, it makes no sense to invest significant resources. You don’t know if the desired outcome will be achieved. Surgeries and hormones… In my experience, a full-on transition (i.e. hormones and/or surgeries) combined with mental illness can make the mental illness worse. Transition adds new problems to the list of things that need sorting: stress about passing, money problems, family issues, health issues, relationship issues, and 101 other things that go with transition. A subset of feminization is "sissy training", wherein the dominant partner slowly over time trains the submissive in being a sissy, making them take on "ultra-feminine" behaviors and participate in feminine activities. [9] As part of this, it is common for the sissy to cross-dress; to shave their body, [9] including their genitals; wear make-up; and wear women's underwear, [8] to appear more womanly. Activities in sissy training involve non-sexual ones, such as applying make-up or cleaning the house, as well as sexual ones. [9]While I’m not suggesting an exam entry for the female gender, there should be a commitment to learn about the history, culture and socio-economic status of women. Men eat more, smoke more, drink more, use drugs more. In fact, one of the archetypal male degeneracies is excess. Learning to eat less is a good starting point to temper this weaknesses and introduce a female strength: moderation. Diet and nutrition is, therefore, a great way of combining the transformation of the body and the mind.

Transgender psychology is a nascent field. There’s no definitive study on where feminization should start, leaving you to personal preference/philosophy. This is not because transgender people or sissies are more prone to mental illness, but that the vast majority of adults suffer from these illnesses. The meaning of ‘feminine’ itself is subjective, so we all prioritize certain ‘feminine’ objectives over others. Basically, there’s no definitive or ‘correct’ answer. The moment you start analyzing it, you see that t he best starting point for feminization is subjective, because… But what if she changes her mind? What if she prefers being a sissy? What if familial or other obligations intercede and she needs to look male again? What if she realizes that she won’t look feminine at all… and throws in the towel?Valens, Ana (2020-02-28). "Trans/Sex: Kink is affirming—and complicated—for trans women". The Daily Dot. Archived from the original on 2020-05-24 . Retrieved 2020-07-02. One of the biggest impediments to successful transition is fear. Namely, the fear that people don’t see you as a woman, and a paranoia that they’re looking at you, knowing, thinking, saying to themselves that you’re biologically male. On our program, we train novagirls to communicate more effectively, to listen, to ask the right questions, to resolve conflicts, to eliminate vice, to focus the mind, and to practice moderation in all things. These improvements create real world benefits in terms of relationships, health and career. a b c d e f Parks-Ramage, Jonathan (2016-07-28). " 'I Cross-Dress. Do You Still Love Me?': The Secret Lives of Sissies". Vice. Vice Media. Archived from the original on 2020-09-16 . Retrieved 2020-06-28. Women are the custodians of humanity. We conceive and carry and birth new lives. This means that even when we become soldiers, entrepreneurs or surgeons (and don’t have children), we’re still programed for creation, nurturing, growth, family, stability. That is the origins of our superior social skills, our instinct towards compromise and peace, and our aversion to risk and excess.

Boyd, Helen (2003). My Husband Betty: Love, Sex, and Life with a Crossdresser. Seal Press. pp.33–34. ISBN 978-1-56025-515-4. reinforcement aspects play a role in solidifying the roles that she is in charge, that transgressionsIn her book Fetish Sex, writer Violet Blue says that although the kink may seem like it is devaluing women from an outsider's perspective, submissive partners engaging in it often have a lot of respect for women. [6] In Gender Reversals and Gender Cultures, Sabrina P. Ramet writes that although the fantasy may seem contradictory in its treatment of femininity as a source of humiliation, since it is often combined with femdom – as one could assume that the submissive's feminine clothing would be a symbol of the female superiority within a femdom–feminization role-play scenario – the two fantasies are independent even within the role-play, with the humiliation coming from the cultural taboo of wearing women's clothing as a man. [13] To explore the female mind (rather than focus on the body) is to reject the malignant vanity of the InstaGeist. It’s our society’s obsession with appearance that leads novagirl to immediately think of the physicality of womanhood, when it is more rewarding to prioritize the mental.